Embracing Obscurity- Chapter 9

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Chapter 9: Embracing the Spotlight
Even as we truly embrace obscurity, there will be times when we have an amount of power or influence over others.  In this chapter, the author encourages us to not shy away from the spotlight of position, but to embrace it as well.  His suggestions for how to embrace obscurity while in the spotlight are very good.  For this chapter, I have mostly shared the outline of his most salient points as they are fairly self-explanatory.
 
- "Will we use the spotlight for God's glory or our own?" (Page 149)  It really isn't a question whether we will be in the spotlight or not, because we all will at some point, to some degree.
 
- "Life as somebody became more appealing to Saul than holiness." (Page 150)  May the Lord help me to appreciate holiness more than life in the spotlight!
 
- The author suggests the following three things to remember during our time in the spotlight:

• Our roots- we came into this world with nothing, we will leave with nothing, and everything we have in between is a gift from God.
• Our purpose- even our time in the spotlight is for God's glory
• Our purpose is not to: (This is a great list!)
• Praise myself
• Make my name great
• Get rich
• Gain authority over others for my ego's sake
• Leave brothers and sisters in the dust of my ambition
• Make others feel small
• Become self-sufficient
• Earn a five-star rating from the masses
• Our purpose is to:
• Make God's name great
• Advance God's kingdom on Earth
• Serve others
• Our limits- this can be hard because of other people's expectations.  To help us, we can remember the following statements:
• I don't know everything
• I have limited time and energy
• I'm not morally invincible
• I'm not irreplaceable

(The above is found in pages 151-159.)
 
- Near the end of the chapter he talked about humbling ourselves.  I was challenged by this thought.  The Scriptural foundation seems sound, but I feel that I don't know how this looks in everyday life.  I want to humble myself, but I'm not sure how to go about it.  In trying to humble myself, I don't want it to be obvious to others so then I struggle with pride.  I want to learn how to voluntarily humble myself and trust Christ alone to exalt me in His time.
 
I've had my say, what say you?

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